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When one hurts or kills a women
one hurts or kills hummanity and is an antrocitie.
Gino d'Artali
and: My mother (1931-1997) always said to me <Mi
figlio, non esistono notizie <vecchie> perche puoi imparare qualcosa da
qualsiasi notizia.> Translated: <My son, there is no such thing as so
called 'old' news because you can learn something from any news.>
Gianna d'Artali
SPECIAL ABOUT DR DENIS
MUKWEGE (Democatic Republic Congo)
PART 2
Since long I've know and read
about the Congolese Dr. and gyneacologist Denis Mukwege living and
working in Congo and because of the greusomeness and neverending number
of rape victims he, in 1999, decided to open a hospital, Panzi, only to
try and help them and he figaratively speaking fought to death in trying
to do so. The perpetrators: rivaling tribes in war raping the women of
other tribes as a trophee and proof of their 'bravery'. Dr. Mukwege
literary saved thousands of women ('till today about 60.000 and counting) and
not only deserves a minutes long standing ovation. Since 2008, Mukwege
has been awarded dozens of prizes in recognition of his work, including
the UN Human Rights Prize (2008), in 2014 he was awarded the European
Parliament's Sakharov Prize for Freedom of Thought and the Seoul Peace
Prize (2016) and the Nobel Peace Prize (2018). All because in his words
<You can and must end the use of sexual violence as a weapon of war in
armed conflict only by abolishining it.> Together with the Yazidi
activist
Nadia Murad, Dr Mukwege received the
2018 Nobel Peace Prize <for his efforts to end the use of sexual
violence as a weapon of war and armed conflict.> He has also been
granted honorary degrees from the Universities of Edinburgh and Harvard.
A 2015 documentary entitled
'The man who mends women - the wrath of
Hippocrates' illustrates his life and work. The film was subtitled in
all EU official languages with the support of the European Parliament. Something he more than well deserves and especially his
goal of what to do with the money. He not only deserves our deepest
respect but also our full support, to start with for the victims and
last but not least Dr. Denis Mukwege.
With this special I'll take you on a journey wich will take you along
his road of high- and downlights.
Gino d'Artali
Indept investigative journalist
This is part 2 which will take you on his hazardous but still immensily heroic journey but of which dr. Mukwege said: <I did and do it for the women.> from 31 Oct 2021 'till 5 Oct 2013
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RELATED
WOMEN'S MEDIA CENTER
29 Jan 2014
By Lauren Wolfe
<<Never-ending trauma: In DRC, rape survivors are punished with more rape.
The horrors are so terrible that they sound made up but—somehow—they aren't. A
woman raped in front of her husband. In front of her parents-in-law. Forced to
watch her child killed and then raped. Forced to have sex with her son in front
of militants. Raped when nine months' pregnant. The examples are endless in the
Democratic Republic of Congo. There has been such extreme humiliation of women
at the hands of militias for nearly two decades of war. Here is one woman's
experience, in her own words: I had just finished bathing and saw that military
men had arrived at my house. They forced open the door and forced me into the
main room. Then the rape started. I wanted to defend myself. I asked why this
was happening to me. I was beat by one while the other raped me. My children
cried. The soldiers forced us to be silent and threatened to kill us. I am
ashamed and want to die but I also want to protect my children. I don't know
what happened to this woman when the soldiers left her house. Did her husband
leave her? Many husbands have—claiming that their wives have lost <value> or are
now drawing negative attention to the household. In fact, a 2012 study conducted
by the South Africa-based Sonke Gender Justice Network and Brazilian nonprofit
Promundo in Goma, in Congo's North Kivu province, found that 43 percent of men
surveyed agreed with the statement that <A man should reject his wife when she
has been raped.> Men have walked out of their marriages, leaving women to figure
out how to earn money to feed themselves and their children and to cope on their
own with the extraordinary violence perpetrated on them. But many men have
stayed. The question then becomes: Did these men help their wives through the
trauma they’d expe-rienced? Did they honor them despite this cultural shame of
having been violated? After their 2012 study, Sonke and Promundo went back to
DRC to conduct further research on exactly this. What they found in their new
study is shocking. <We went into the study thinking it was positive when men did
not reject wives or partners who experienced rape in conflict,> said Gary
Barker, international director of Promundo. But that's not what was going on.
What was happening was that the combined trauma of the war and of the rape of
their wives was creating a situation in which men became abusive to their
partners. In fact, more than half of the men surveyed reported ever carrying out
some form of violence against their female partner, and 65 percent of women
reported ever having experienced violence, including sexualized violence, from a
male partner, i.e., women were attacked by their husbands on top of being raped
by soldiers. <We were distressed at how much men are traumatized by their
partners' experience of rape and how much men's trauma was taken out in the form
of physical violence on their already victimized wives,> Barker said. Violence
begets violence. And in DRC, that has come to mean rape: <The scale of rape over
DRC's years of war has made this crime seem more acceptable,> said Susan
Bartels, chief researcher at the Harvard Humanitarian Initiative, in 2010. She
was commenting on a study recently completed that found that rape by civilians
had increased 17-fold in the country.
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While such treatment may be inhumane, it's also important to look at the reasons
why a number of men have chosen to take out their anger on their victimized
wives. <To truly assist women survivors of conflict-related rape in DRC and
elsewhere, we need to understand how women's trauma affects men and how men’s
trauma affects women,> Barker said. In DRC, basic hardships like poverty,
hunger, childhood trauma, and lack of work have taken their toll on generations
of men and women. (And by <hunger,> I mean that 57 percent of men and 60 percent
of women eat only one meal a day or less, according to the researchers.) Another
major finding was the high levels of trauma among men from the war—<which
further exaggerates levels of violence in the home,> according to the report.
Large numbers of men, the study said, have also themselves been the victims of
various forms of violence, including of sexualized violence, whether during the
war or in childhood. Researchers found that there was a <clear association>
between men's exposure to violence during childhood and increased likelihood of
perpetration later.
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Take a look at these statements from women in the study to get a better idea of
how they've been treated after their rape: <He feels weak and frustrated because
he was not able to stop the rapist, or get him. He feels that he lost his power
and fertility. He accuses his wife for this.>
<The community makes it very difficult; my husband feels ashamed, and me too.
People don't respect him because he has no work and a wife that was raped.>
<The day I told him that I was raped, he fell on the floor and got ill. He lost
his self esteem and needs medicine.> >>
Read the complete article here:
https://womensmediacenter.com/women-under-siege/never-ending-trauma-in-drc-rape-survivors-punished-with-more-rape
i.e.: Where there are 3 *** that's the WMC journalist's editing.
Where there is ----* that my, Gino d'artali's, editing
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